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Blog EntryRather Send My Bus Fare On These WomenMay 14, '08 12:42 AM
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     Well, isn’t THIS interesting.  Since fuel costs are going up, more and more people in Utah are depending on UTA...the Utah Transit Authority.  They take busses, trains, etc.  NOW UTA is planning on raising their prices under the auspices that they are paying more for fuel.  Up to a dollar per trip on the Trax train that my daughter takes to school each day.

     UTA is well known for raising prices on a whim and treating wheelchair people like crap (case in point the EMPTY bus that somehow didn’t have room for me).  We have one of the cheapest economies in the states yet UTA costs more to take here than other mass transit companies in the other states.

     This summer, I am going to make my daughter get her motorcycle permit along with her driving permit.  I had once offered to get her a scooter to go back and forth to school with and it looks like that might be the cheaper option for next year.

     Of course the little git says that if she gets stronger and when she gets older she wants to get a Harley.  *rolls eyes*

     I taught her well.  *wipes a tear from her eye* ROTF

     Hope she doesn’t think I am going to go get her one…THAT one is on her lol.

     I watched a PBS show tonight called “A Walk To Beautiful”.  OMG…If you can get it or see it, PLEASE DO.  It’s about women in Ethiopia who have complications from childbirth.  Most notably, fistulas.  Fistulas are tears between the bladder and uterus and/or rectum and uterus.  The feces and/or urine leak out through the vagina and make their lives a living hell.

     Not only do they have urine and what all running down their legs continuously, but their husbands and families and villages shun them.  Many aren’t able to support themselves or their children or even live in the village proper. 

     I had heard of this a long time ago on another program and then Oprah but THIS show last night was amazing.

     It followed some women through their journey to getting healed.  One was so heartbreaking because she couldn’t be cured fully, her bladder had been damaged and she couldn’t hold her urine.

     They actually had to give her a plug with a stopper in it to insert and even that little gadget, changed her life so much.

     We take for granted our doctors, nurses and hospitals during childbirth.  We have C-sections, epidurals, equipment to monitor us, people who fight to be in the birthing room with us.

     One of the women in the movie had been in labor for TEN DAYS.  She ended up with both fistulas and at the end of the movie, she was cured. 

     You really NEED to see this movie.  If it gets too gross for you, just look away but don’t stop listening.  Because this is a woman’s problem, there isn’t a lot of money for the operations, etc.  An operation at one place costs $450.  The women themselves don’t pay anything…the surgeries are free for the patients.  When they are ready to go home, they are given new clothes to signify their new start in life.

     One of the hospitals/facilities in Ethiopia has a website: www.fistulafoundation.org  I don’t have a lot of money but I am going to send what I can each month.  Maybe only the cost of the soda I don’t need to drink, but something each month.

     Please visit and at least become familiar with the problem.  It is actually a worldwide problem and if we women in the ‘richest’ nations can’t help even a bit, what’s the sense of having our blogs and connecting to all these women online? 

     Aren’t the women in these nations worth something too?


15 Comments
osuzana wrote on May 14
I think they are worth something but I wish instead of all these feed the poor and stories like this they would spend the money and time teaching these women about birth control and teaching the rest of the community about why this happens. Just my humble opinion.

All the Harley's are big bikes. She would do much better with a Honda and it's a smoother ride too. I think a scooter is a good idea and that is awful about your transit system.
freyavalkyrie wrote on May 14
I did a paper on that very same subject in college. Give them more power and control over their lives. Unfortunately, the friggin religious fanatics won't let it happen en masse. And most of these women are in the boonies where they have no idea they have the ability to control their lives.
Patriarchal Societies suck, man.
A honda is prolly quieter too lol.
UTA sucks the big one.
freyavalkyrie wrote on May 14
Oh and I forgot...My daughter won't learn how to ride a regular bike...god knows how many times she will lay down a scooter. *rolls eyes*
empresspam wrote on May 14
Uh...

The more I find out about pregnancy and giving birth, the more I want do a triple dose of birth control pills
freyavalkyrie wrote on May 14
These problems don't happen here...doctors don't let the labor go on for days.
snowbea wrote on May 14
I agree with Suzana, education is the key but it sure is a sad situation. Imagine having to give birth in a grass hut with dirt floors! Child birth is still a big killer of women in the developing world.

Don't the metro trains run on electricity? If so, rising petrol prices seems a really dumb arsed excuse to put their prices up.
freyavalkyrie wrote on May 14
I know...they have changed all the bus routes so you HAVE to take the train to get to where you are going. AND the transfers from the bus aren't good on the train so you have to pay TWICE to go one way. AND they are getting money from taxpayers to EXPAND the train lines. Jerks are getting us coming and going.
I know. I wish there was a way to get to all those villages but no one wants to spend the money to get there and teach these people. But even teaching them won't save them...there aren't doctors out there and women are WAY LOW on the totem pole as far as importance in the villages. Then you have the religious right who keep telling people it's wrong to take birth control.
snowbea wrote on May 14
Then you have the religious right who keep telling people it's wrong to take birth control.
Do you think we should tell Midnight??? LMAO
freyavalkyrie wrote on May 14
LOL My first reaction was 'fuck yeah' but I am trying to be nice these days so I'll just leave it alone. I don't need a religious rant on my blog.
freyavalkyrie wrote on May 14
...and BTW, you are an evil, evil child for even suggesting that. ROTFLMAO
snowbea wrote on May 14
LMAO!!!
k9dg wrote on May 15
Very interesting blog! We are going to pay more for any and everything no matter what! Gas,food...everything!
I used to have a motorcycle...many moons ago! Fun..but dangerous !
freyavalkyrie wrote on May 15
LOL True. Yeah, I think we'll stick to scooters til she is old enough to have her own health insurance lol.
fortuity wrote on May 16
I agree but there are always enough dam missionaries there aren't there? There are doctors but they are stretched to the limit.
freyavalkyrie wrote on May 17
Maybe the missionaries should get off their asses and becoem doctors and actually do some GOOD. Or volunteer at hospitals or out in the bush getting the 'medical' messafge rather than the 'spiritual' one out to the pople. Most of the problem is lack of knowledge on the indiginous people's part. Thanks for stopping by.
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